I value discretion and like my privacy just as much as you do. So I never try to stand out or “make a scene” whenever we are out in public. If we are in a professional environment, then I make it a point to blend in. Same thing if we are in a more casual environment. At no time during our date will you be worried about any negative attention I bring you.
I also understand the hesitation about giving someone your personal information. Safety is paramount to both of us. That’s why screening is necessary—safety. That’s also why the screening information you send me is sent through a secure form and is never shared with anyone else. All screening info is verified in a very discreet manner with virtually no threat to your confidentiality.